(I didn't want to treat this as an isolated entry)
At the moment I am feeling quietly content with not being defined by anything. Or Much. I have a tendancy to define myself by what I do, or my singleness or by my Christianity (not as much as I should). Right now I feel like I am comprised of a balanced agglommeration of a lot of things and this is good.
The best answer I have heard to the question "what do you do" was by Wendy when she answered a question directed at Craig with "he skims stones on frozen lakes and makes lovely noises".
Justice doesn't like that question either. Speaking of Justice, see Not Isolated 3 (love and Justice).
I still wouldn't turn down a snog, but...